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DATING ADVICE FOR MALE GEEKS, NERDS AND THE INTP COLLEGE STUDENT CLASS OF PERSON OR HOW TO GET A GIRLFRIEND.
OK, so you're a geek/nerd/INTP college student and you want a girlfriend but can't get one. Here is some advice.
You are thinking to yourself, "Where can I go to get a girlfriend?". Well, at some stage this week, in the area where you live, hundreds of girls in you age group (18-21) will ask themselves "Where can I go to get a boyfriend?". They have their ambitions too, you know.
In the city where you live, about 3% of the total population will be girls aged 18-21. So find out the total population in your area and then calculate 3%... this is your target population.
Let me let you into a little secret... every Friday and Saturday night there are probably hundreds of girls in your area who go out to bars, clubs, dances, concerts etcetera in the hope of "pulling" a bloke.
"Pulling"... a term used in Britain to describe going out to specifically to find a boyfriend.
STAGE ONE: Decide where to go
You need to go somewhere that girls go... so forget the chess and computer clubs. Consider bars, clubs, dances, concerts. Or if you are musical: just learn how to play the guitar: YOUTUBE
Also, you can do yoga classes or amateur dramatics, go to a poetry reading, join a literary club or a sports club or if you are religious a young peoples' religious group.
STAGE TWO: Preparation
So when you have decided where to go, prepare for the big day by making sure that you have a clean set of clothes. And on the day, have a bath/shower and shave. Make sure that you are presentable.
STAGE THREE: Wait
Go the the venue of your choice then all you do is wait until a girl who is out actively looking for a boyfriend takes a fancy to you. Remember that not all girls want a jock or Mr Personality type. A lot like a nice, quiet low-maintenance type. All you have to do is wait and eventually you will get lucky.
Don't try to find Miss Perfect cuz she doesn't exist. If you can find a girl with 60% of what you are looking for then grab her.
If you can't find a girlfriend at college and at your age, you'll NEVER be able to find one.
If you're in college or going to college, check out The College Guide to Dating. It's a personal favorite and goes into more detail on everything I've written here. It explains the psychology of the college girl, where you meet college girls, how you bond with them, and get into a relationship. They give away a free chapter on their site, so check it out. Learn this stuff now and avoid a life devoid of girls!
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